Category: Life

  • I am 100%, undoubtedly, a crazy cat lady

    Jessi & Chop-Chop | Hola Darla
    There was a time back in elementary school when I found a little stray kitty at the school playground. Little me was sad for the poor kitty meowing around, so I took him (it was a male) to class and hid him under my desk. After school, I took him home riding an angkot (a small bus). My mother was super angry when I told her everything and sadly I had to let him go because there was no way that we could take care of him. He ended up becoming our casual pet; he roamed around the neighbourhood all day and he’d go back to our house to eat leftover food that we left for him in our backyard. Sometimes he’d nap there. When he finally grew up, he brought home a litter of kittens at one point. The kittens were his, apparently. I still don’t know about the mother. But the cats were gone one by one. I don’t know what happened to them. We eventually moved from the house.

    I’ve gone a long way from there. Now, I can’t even listen to a kitten meowing without becoming full of tears. In fact, I’m on the edge of crying everytime I see a stray cat, especially if it’s skinny. I even put cats in my prayers every night. Does anyone else do that too?

    Two weeks ago, Chop-Chop fell ill and I almost died of crying! I lost four cats during Nov ’13-Jan ’15 and the pain is something I don’t want to experience ever again. Chop-Chop’s symptoms matched those of Billy’s before he died three years ago. I was very worried when I found Chop-Chop vomitting and losing his appetite. I took him to the clinic as soon as possible and the vet told me that she couldn’t determine if it was a virus or merely a stomach bug just yet, so she gave him some antibiotics and vitamins and then I took him home. Thank goodness he got better in two days. He’s back to his old self now, chasing Jessi around and trying to fight her (she just wants to be left alone, Chops!)

    To me, losing a cat is one of the most excruciating pains in life. I cried every night for over a week when I lost Molly. I’d do anything to keep my fur babies safe, healthy, and happy.

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  • I’m alive!


    Well of course I am.

    My laptop has been acting up lately. It has to be plugged into the power source all the time or it can’t be turned on. All my work and entertainment are inside that little flat bread and I’m very mobile so this situation has made me super cranky for the past month.

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  • How I Met My Cat

    Chop-Chop The Cat | Hola Darla
    It was about half a month ago. As I was preparing to go tutoring at 2 pm, I heard a sad cry. It was a little black kitten in front of a vacant house across the street. I was already running late and I thought the cat mama was near, so I left the kitten there and went to Bandung.

    However, when I came back home at 6.30 pm, the sky already dark and the rain pouring, the little kitten was still crying. At that time, its voice was already hoarse. I could tell that the poor thing was thirsty. But it was nowhere to be seen, just a voice cutting through the sound of raindrops. I couldn’t just stand there listening to that sad cry, so I grabbed my umbrella and a flashlight.

    I found the little thing in the backyard of the same vacant house I had seen it earlier in the afternoon. He (it’s a male) was shaking and his eyes were all swollen shut. I took him home and put him in a cardboard box. I didn’t have kitten food, so I fed him Jessi’s food mixed with water. He ate noisily (nom-nom-nom) while Jessi kept a safe distance from the strange creature.

    Chop-Chop The Cat Napping | Hola Darla
    He’s so small!

    My husband agreed that we could keep him for the night, then I had to search for the mother the next morning. We knew by then that the mother was the neighbourhood stray black cat that we occasionally fed. I didn’t find her the next morning, but I did find her with her band of kittens two days later. I presented the little kitten to his mother. They embraced. The mother licked him and licked him and licked him. . . . She kept licking and pushing him until he fell into the sewer and left him there crying once again. And I was like what.the.actual.heck. I took him back home and washed him clean. Then we (my husband and I) decided to keep him for good and name him Chop-Chop.

    As we had already guessed, Jessi loathed him during his first days with us. There were a lot of hissing and growling and crying (on Chop-Chop’s side). Chop-Chop couldn’t even use his litter box (I keep his & Jessi’s apart) and he went everywhere: under our bed, under the cupboard, under my home office table, in the laundry basket. The house was a mess.

    Then all of a sudden, they became BFFs, so far as destroying the curtain together. Now they nap together, play tag, run around the house and knock things off in the process. The house is still a mess, but it’s a happy mess now.

    So without agenda, without any plan, we have two cats now. It’s been years since the last time I had kittens, I almost forgot how annoying kittens can be, moreover kittens with no mother around. Thank goodness, Jessi is willing to take care of Chop-Chop i.e. licking him and playing/teaching him how to fight. She’s a nice big sister. I love them both so much 🙂

    Chop-Chop The Cat Likes To Bite | Hola Darla
    He’s a biter, just like Jessi 🙂

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  • Lately

    As of lately, I’ve been . . . .

    Launching Menaq | Hola Darla
    . . . . launching Menaq. My headscarves label has finally been launched in early January! You can see the catalogue on our Instagram and Facebook Page, or you can add our Line@ account 🙂

    Going Swimming with Husband | Hola Darla
    . . . . going swimming.

    Going Swimming with Mata Ilmu's Managerial Staff | Hola Darla
    . . . . going for more swimming.

    Trying to Master Makeup | Hola Darla
    . . . . trying to master the art of makeup. And failing miserably. I mean, look at those eyebrows! *sigh*

    Sniffing Books | Hola Darla
    . . . . sniffing books. Best smell in the world! If there were book-smell perfume, I’d totally wear it.

    Taking Care of Two Cats | Hola Darla
    . . . . taking care of TWO cats. Yes, Jessi got an adopted little brother! I found a stray kitten about ten days ago. It was dark and raining and this little fella was crying. I didn’t have the heart to leave him like that so I took him home. I’ll write more about him later this week. More about him here.

    Working in Terminal Coffee | Hola Darla
    . . . . working. I took over the position of finance manager at Mata Ilmu, so I’ve been super busy with the sheets.

    However busy I’ve been, I still don’t think that January went away like a blink of an eye. In all honesty, I think the exact opposite: January felt like 300 days! The new year felt like a hundred years ago haha… But 2016 has been really kind to me. I hope the rest of the year will be too.

    Oh and have a nice February, friends! 😉

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  • #letsDOthis2016

    #letsDOthis2016 Resolutions | Hola Darla
    This year, I’m not making any resolutions. Instead, I chose one word for the whole year. My word of the year is:

    DO

    So I’m starting 2016 by challenging myself to DO. Not try, but do. I want to exercise regularly, so I’ll do it. I want to learn to dress better, so I’ll do it. I want to open an online shop, so I’ll do it.

    I’ll do it. This year.

    So #letsDOthis2016!

    What is (are) your resolution(s)?

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