Before Our Vow

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Dear Afief,
It feels so weird. In less than 24 hours, I’m going to start a new life with someone I’ve just known for 3 years. I had this realisation a few days ago, and it made me cry myself to sleep, resulting in a pair of puffy eyes in the morning. But isn’t it weird, though?

I met you in the middle of 2011 and now at the end of 2014, I’m marrying you. I’m devoting myself to you. After what felt like one hell of a year, and another year which turned out to be great for the both of us, we’re getting married. Eventually. This is a big leap. A lot of people were surprised when I told them that we were engaged; they were more surprised to know that we’d only be engaged for 4 months before officially tying the knot. I, too, feel like I’m still too young to get married every now and then. But I guess it is what it should be. All the things have led us here in this path. Now, I’m ready.

But the fact remains: we’re still very young. I’m still stubborn. I really hope we can make it through our first year, second year, and all the years to come.

So darling, let’s do this.

26 December 2014
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