Kemaren-kemaren sempet viral postingan seorang istri yang jual koleksi Lego suaminya. “Mumpung suami nggak ada di rumah,” katanya. Banyak kaum pria yang share postingan itu sambil marah-marah (“Kalo punya bini kayak begini, mendingan cerai!”), tapi nggak sedikit juga perempuan yang share sambil setuju. Kenapa sih kok kayaknya sering banget aku liat fenomena suami versus istri begini? (more…)
Category: Relationship
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![[THOUGHT] Suami Hobi Main Game? Bolehin Aja Lah…](https://darlaoct.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/img_4687.jpg)
[THOUGHT] Suami Hobi Main Game? Bolehin Aja Lah…
Perkembangan gadget yang makin canggih, bikin hobi main game jadi bergeser. Kalau dulu untuk main game kita butuh konsol khusus macam Sega atau Nintendo (PS belum ada dulu hahahaha ketahuan kan umurnya berapa ?) sekarang cukup pakai handphone kita sudah bisa main game yang lumayan canggih. Dulu pernah booming banget game yang namanya Clash of Clans, terus Mobile Legend, terus sekarang PUBG (apa itu, aku pun tak tahu ?). (more…)
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Cut it loose.
During the lowest part of my quarter-life crisis, around November 2016, I had an epiphany that I needed to start burning bridges. Which bridges? you might ask. Well, the bridges between me & several people.2016 taught me that I’m responsible with my own happiness. Nobody else has the duty to make me happy; it’s only me. So I made a list of things that made me unhappy & surprisingly, certain names appeared on my list.
Then I realised that it was finally time to burn bridges. And I guess that’s perfectly okay. It’s okay to severe the tie with the people who no longer contribute to your growth. If those people can think that they’re allowed to bring you down, well you’re allowed to free yourself from them. It may not be easy, but it’s necessary.
2017 will be the year of meaningful & positive relationships.